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Allan Lear's avatar

He seems to have done a lot of good by stealth, especially donations to causes in his native Birmingham, not shouting about it but just quietly sending money. And, as you say, he had an endearingly baffled quality - his attitude was less "do you know who I am?" and more "does anyone know where I am?"

Funny, isn't it - Ronnie James Dio was the lead singer of Sabbath for around eight hundred years, but if you ASK anyone who the lead singer is...

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Daniel Rodríguez Suárez's avatar

People die every day. Where I live, they post small notices when someone elderly passes away. A simple announcement: this person has died. If you knew them, or if you want to spend a Sunday afternoon paying your respects to a stranger, come. I went. Why not? I was curious. I pictured the whole town gathering, everyone there, sharing the weight of loss. Six and a half people showed up. I'm counting the cat.

I talked to one of them - the part-time butcher who stocks shelves at the supermarket. He seemed glad to see a familiar face. He knew her well. "She was easy to talk to," he said. She gave to charity. She played guitar. She knitted sweaters - handmade clothes for her family, year after year. The newspapers didn't write about her. The Coldstream Guards didn't play her guitar riffs outside Buckingham Palace. But she had a good life. She lived among us. She mattered to at least six people - including me, now. Maybe I'm her newest, quietest fan.

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She wasn't Ozzy Osbourne or any kind of cultural figure with their contradictions and excessive ways of living. Her $30 to charity means the same as someone else's hundreds of thousands - maybe more, without the tax breaks. When it comes to death, everyone on earth perhaps deserves the same level of attention. Not the media circus, but the respect.

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